Our experiences with friendships can significantly shape our lives, and losing a friend can be a deeply painful ordeal. The Bible provides us with wisdom on how to navigate this emotional terrain and offers us insights into the nature of friendship and loss.
Bible Verses about Losing Friends
Job 19:14 – My Close Friends Abandon Me
“My relatives have gone away; my closest friends have forgotten me.”
Psalm 55:12-14 – My Trusted Friend Betrays Me
“If an enemy were insulting me, I could endure it; if a foe were rising against me, I could hide. But it is you, a man like myself, my companion, my close friend, with whom I once enjoyed sweet fellowship at the house of God, as we walked about among the worshipers.”
Proverbs 17:9 – Love Perishes with a Friend
“Whoever would foster love covers over an offense, but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.”
Proverbs 18:24 – Stick Closer Than a Brother
“One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”
Proverbs 19:6 – Many Seek the Favor of a Generous Friend
“Many curry favor with a ruler, and everyone is the friend of one who gives gifts.”
Psalm 41:9 – Even My Close Friend Turned Against Me
“Even my close friend, someone I trusted, one who shared my bread, has turned against me.”
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Proverbs 22:24-25 – Make No Friendship with a Hot-Tempered Person
“Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.”
Proverbs 27:10 – Do Not Forsake Your Friend
“Do not forsake your friend or a friend of your family, and do not go to your relative’s house when disaster strikes you—better a neighbor nearby than a relative far away.”
Proverbs 27:17 – Iron Sharpens Iron
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
Luke 23:12 – Herod and Pilate Became Friends
“That day Herod and Pilate became friends—before this, they had been enemies.”
Matthew 10:22 – Friends Will Betray One Another
“You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.”
Job 2:11 – Job’s Friends Come to Console Him
“When Job’s three friends, Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite, heard about all the troubles that had come upon him, they set out from their homes and met together by agreement to go and sympathize with him and comfort him.”
John 15:14 – You Are My Friends if You Do What I Command
“You are my friends if you do what I command.”
Proverbs 27:9 – Perfume and Incense Bring Joy to the Heart
“Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice.”
Proverbs 27:6 – Wounds from a Friend Can Be Trusted
“Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.”
Matthew 26:49-50 – Judas Betrays Jesus with a Kiss
“Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, ‘Greetings, Rabbi!’ and kissed him. Jesus replied, ‘Do what you came for, friend.’ Then the men stepped forward, seized Jesus, and arrested him.”
Proverbs 16:28 – A Troublemaker Sows Strife Among Friends
“A perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close friends.”
Proverbs 27:10 – Do Not Abandon Your Friends in Times of Trouble
“Do not forsake your friend or a friend of your family, and do not go to your relative’s house when disaster strikes you—better a neighbor nearby than a relative far away.”
Luke 7:34 – The Son of Man Came Eating and Drinking, and You Say
“The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’”
John 15:15 – No Longer Do I Call You Servants, But Friends
“I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.”
James 4:4 – Friendship with the World Makes You an Enemy of God
“You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.”
1 Samuel 18:1 – Jonathan’s Soul Was Knit with David’s
“After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.”
John 15:13 – Greater Love Has No One than This
“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
Proverbs 17:17 – A Friend Loves at All Times
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”
1 Corinthians 15:33 – Bad Company Corrupts Good Character
“Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.'”
Proverbs 16:7 – When the Lord is Pleased with a Man’s Way, He Makes Even His Enemies at Peace with Him
“When the LORD takes pleasure in anyone’s way, he causes their enemies to make peace with them.”
Proverbs 27:19 – As Water Reflects the Face, So One’s Life Reflects the Heart
“As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart.”
Proverbs 12:26 – The Righteous Choose Their Friends Carefully
“The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”
1 Samuel 20:17 – Jonathan Loves David as Himself
“And Jonathan had David reaffirm his oath out of love for him, because he loved him as he loved himself.”
Proverbs 22:11 – He Who Loves a Pure Heart and Whose Speech is Gracious Will Have the King for a Friend
“One who loves a pure heart and who speaks with grace will have the king for a friend.”
Proverbs 13:20 – Walk with the Wise and Become Wise
“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”
1 Samuel 23:16 – Jonathan Encourages David in God
“And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God.”
Proverbs 22:24-25 – Do Not Make Friends with a Hot-Tempered Person
“Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.”
Proverbs 12:26 – A Righteous Person is an Example of Integrity
“The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”
Luke 7:34 – Jesus and His Association with Sinners
“The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’”
James 4:4 – Friendship with the World vs. Friendship with God
“You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.”
Matthew 26:49-50 – Judas Betrays Jesus with a Kiss
“Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, ‘Greetings, Rabbi!’ and kissed him. Jesus replied, ‘Do what you came for, friend.’ Then the men stepped forward, seized Jesus and arrested him.”
Proverbs 27:10 – Do Not Forsake Your Friends in Times of Trouble
“Do not forsake your friend or a friend of your family, and do not go to your relative’s house when disaster strikes you—better a neighbor nearby than a relative far away.”
Proverbs 27:5-6 – Love and Faithful Wounds from a Friend
“Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.”
Proverbs 17:9 – Love Covers All Offenses
“Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends.”
James 4:8 – Draw Near to God, He Will Draw Near to You
“Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”
Philippians 2:3 – In Humility, Count Others More Significant Than Yourself
“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.”
Proverbs 27:17 – Iron Sharpening Iron
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
Matthew 5:46-47 – Love Your Enemies and Pray for Those Who Persecute You
“If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?”
Proverbs 18:24 – There is a Friend Who Sticks Closer Than a Brother
“A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”